phir NAHEE mile sur...

Mile sur mera tumhara the old magic from late 80’s, but does it create the same appeal in the recent one? For me it’s a big “NO”. I believe mile sur is a harmony, melody, for all great Indians in top. But it was filled with bollywood stars!! Why? It might be integral part of the country but it doesn’t provide much space to space sports people. I failed to understand what shahid kapoor, ranbir kapoor, deepika podukone were doing there. if bollywood was to be epicenter then I think Gulzar and Javed Akhtar deserves more to be there, how can they ignore people like, Saurav Ganguly who has given Indian cricket squad not only a new face but fantastic and blooming team, Rahul Dravid, Vishwanathan Anand who is world champ in chess, Rajya Vardhan Rathod the first individual Olympic medalist from India, Sushmita Sen first ms universe from country, Sania Mirza first woman tennis star or Leander Paes , Sania Nehwal, Pankaj Advani billiards champ, Pronoy Roy, Barkha Dutt, where were those people? And sonu nigam what he has done

with the song, my goodness he has just added so much murkhias to song that actually there is no rhythm left! He made it lifeless if he wanted to make such experiments man just go and create your own album. And Ashwaryia uhhh..!!She did it too much I wish she could have acted 10% of that in her movies. Still when we hear the original we become so engrossed to it, even we start hummed the lyrics of other languages, because, there is a melody, a charm, but in this one even hindi lyrics are not catchy.

If had to rate the song I will rate it -2 yes a minus 2 because it has just extracted the love, emotion, patriotism, harmony, passion from the song. It’s a BESURA.

cary, cary and cary every where

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

This post is completely dedicated to one of my most favorite actor yeah that’s right CARY GRANT. As 18th of January was his 106th birthday and I was thinking how to celebrate his birthday. Eventually I came to now that TCM is celebrating too, in his honor they played few of his movies for the whole day...yeayiiieeee which I was lucky enough to catch and watched three of Cary’s movies back-to-back. Last noon I spent all my time watch him and you wont believe when I slept in night I was in a classic dream, in which I travelled through time and reached to 30’s (I hope its not an effect of “raaz pichle janam ka”) but I was completely hooked by him yesterday either it was in his movies or in my dreams it was Cary Cary and Cary all over. I always thought “an affair to remember”, “every girl should be married” and “holiday” (my most favorite one) are his best movies but I must say the movies I watched last days were great too “arsenic and old lace”, “crisis” and “dream wife” were the other master pieces.

So all you people out there who really want to watch some great movies without graphics and same stories. So just go to the nearest film library and get some Cary’s cds and dvds you will just love it. You all should know why classic is still so stylish and magnetizing, that you wouldn’t like your iris to go distracted for a single second, that’s the reason why I don’t like and cannot bear today’s so called heroes like Tom cruise and Bratt pitt huh!!! They are not even 0.5% of Cary. Ohhh!!!! Cary I just love you. See this is the reason why I ask scientist to invent a time machine! I wanna meet him…bam!! I am talking too much its time for me to concentrate on my next project and make my scrap book Cary me and together…ha-ha..

Love you all

And love you Cary

Deepika…

what it can be called...!!!

Oh I hate them, really I hate them. Thank God I don’t have one. Now don’t ask me what?? I am talking about “brother”..!! Seriously man they are sick. Earlier when girls were born in a kin the society used to assert that “you have a daughter then who is going to look after your clan, you don’t have an ascendant, and she will get married one day and will move to another family. Then who will sustain your old age”. But now days it’s changing, do boys really look after his parents and kin after he gets married. Its one of the rare to the rarest example, we will find that he is taking care of his responsibility other then their wives. The mentality is changing. People are now realizing that giving birth to a son doesn’t mean soul happiness and satisfaction. I know number of people who few years back were proud parents of son or sons. But now they say it as curse in this century. It’s not what I say, it’s their words, as time rolled and they are old their sons are not looking after them, and they are been insulted every minute, their pride has actually got disappeared. Well it’s not bad to take care of their wives to fullest but they have no rights to disown their parents with whom they spent their childhood, who fulfilled their every wish, feeding them with delicious food without retaining for themselves. It’s not bad to look after your wives but for God’s sake they have some responsibility for their parents too. Though I don’t want to defend those ladies too who allows their husbands to act so rubbish. Firstly I believed only men are rational but girls not less rational too and can be mean more mean then a man could be. I could not understand their thought process, how they expect to be happy while heartrending parents? Complete nonsense. What kind of education and upbringings they had, as they behave so rude. I can not even imagine my mom would kill me to such non sense behavior. My parents always taught me that whatever you do in life is your wish but never forget to give “respect” may it be us or some other elderly person or kids but to be happy in life its important to earn respect and for that you need to respect all humankind. That’s what my parents taught me. It’s all about upbringings either you are boy or a girl it’s very essential to imbed true values of life. So to the people reading this post don’t be proud of your son or disheartened of daughter, try to teach them true values of life and giving respect. Give them education and education doesn’t mean degrees, rather to “grow as a human” (which my father used to say and I not only trust it but do follow in life).
Period.

Education and upbringing are the two most important aspects in life. And only parents can fulfill these two. Giving humanitarian edification is more important then materialistic happiness and accomplishments.
Love
Deepika…

i am a woman

I am happy and I am sad,I laughing and I am crying,

I am in crowd but still left lone, I am upset because I am all alone.

I am in love but not being loved, I am shouting but not being heard.

I am here, and I am everywhere.

I am still what I am, I am a woman.

I may not be beautiful, I may not be pretty.

I don’t have golden hair nor my eyes are hazel.

Still I am a woman.

I am here, and I am everywhere.

I am your mother and your wife, filling your stomach with delicious bread.

I am your sisters, who praise you all the time,

I am your daughter whose giggles make your stress disappear.

I am your friend, and a woman.

I am here, and I am everywhere.

Look outside your window glass, can you see me?

I am everywhere

I am college teen tittering with friends, I am the mother waiting for her child after school.

I am the lady selling grocery that noon, I am the woman brooming the corners of the road.

I am here, and I am everywhere.

How often you ask me, am I tired.

How often you ask me, am I happy.

I don’t recall when was the last time I laughed, keeping aside my all worries I had danced,

Now I feel I don’t remember myself anymore, stitching your buttons I lost the thread of my own.

Still when I comeback after day long work, I cook for you while burning my palm.

Whenever I see that ring in finger, I have rolling eyes.

The only thing that comes to my mind, I wish you could understand.

This is quite an old edition now (2006). But there is old saying “jab jago tabhi savera”. From last few weeks my sister was telling me that she want to show a DVD which she held to be a surprise not disclosing either it’s a movie or documentary to all of us in the family together, but thanks to the metro life we were actually not getting a chance to have a get together and stay at home at the same time. Today after long wait we got some time and suddenly she played that DVD. The beginning of the movie was quite melodramatic, but after few minutes it contained. I so mesmerized and engrossed while watching that DVD. It really had instantly and tremendously affected my thought process. It was just WOW! I never knew that people in this world whom I don’t know, whom I have never seen can actually leave such an impression on me which actually left me analyzing myself and ended with a message that how should I think about myself and the universe, amazing.

But won’t you all like to know that what was the name of the DVD which left such a hefty impression on me well the name of the DVD was “The Secret” yes “The Secret” is the name of the film. It is based on the book “The Secret” written by an Australian author Rhonda Byrne in 2006. And in the same year it was released in DVD format which was directed by Drew Heriot. The “The Secret” deals with that presents what is claimed to be a centuries-old idea, the pseudo scientific, Law of Attraction, which in essence is the power of an individual's positive thinking to change and influence outcomes in their lives. The book claims that by using the "Laws of Attraction", an individual can become wealthier, healthier, and happier. After seeing the film, one thing that stroke to my mind was “ALL IZZ WELL” idea of Amir Khan in 3 idiots. Well of course he is not an idiot he has already been a reader to that book.(ha-h).
I will suggest everyone to watch that film or read that book one in life time, an assure yourself to be a successful in every ways by just a bit changed attitude and think process. Well I have already started working towards it in every manner. So people what you are waiting for just go and grab an edition for your self either the book or the film any thing, but just go and have look once it will make you so positive that you cant imagine that you pen your future how? That’s the mystery for which you either have to watch the movie or read the book. Don’t loose a single second.
Love you all...
Yours smiling
Deepika....

after all that matters is passion..

"Life is a race and you have to run or else you will be a broken anda" (a latest pick from 3 idiots) has given a hefty notion that besides your willingness to work, the other thing very necessary is your passion. Surprisingly in our life span we all do realize that what our passion is and for what. But very often we speak about our passion, because today we are born with a fear, a fear to compete and most of the time thinking, what people around might be parents, family, friends, mates anyone would think. We generally grow with the assumption that they will not understand us, they will make fun of us. But what I believe is to “Say”, say what you want to do, say what your wish is. Wish of course is one of the most confusing words I find in dictionary, because now a days most of us name our greed, our hunger, and our majburi a “Wish”. But does it mean the same? For me NO! Wish is something which you need to fulfill by yourself, it’s a situation or peak of the mount which you achieve through your work, dedication, love and most important your passion. I remember few months back when I faced a situation where I had to choose my aim, my wish or of my kin, it was one of the toughest situation I faced till in my life, it obviously took some time for me to make a decision but what I chose was my passion. I am not fortune reader or psychic. I don’t know what will happen after ten years but I know myself, I know how will I behave in next ten years, I know in which avenue I want to walk in, I know what I want to do in those ten years, I can’t push myself to get frustrated while competing for other, but I know what I want to do, I am not meant for civil service job even if I get a chance I cannot give my share of profit to the organization, I will not able to be productive because I don’t have my passion inclined towards it. I know I have hurt few people by that decision but one thing more which I know is they love me, at the end of the day they all want me to be happy. Their half heartedly supporting me too but I believe in me that after few years they are not going to regret it. Money, luxury, property all are important but not at the cost of my self satisfaction. I cannot be biased about my self or anyone. I know people around who care for me I have no rights to hurt them, I will try to do what they all want me to do but parallel I cant stop myself doing what I want to do.

Speaking about myself so much makes me a self obsessed person but it’s not bad to speak your mind. I have seen few people who wait for the correct time to speak but dear there is no such perfect time exists in clock. If you have something in your mind about anything anyone so just go and tell it because the more you are going to wait is more time you loose and in time of recessions don’t loose anything (ha-ha!!). When you are clear about matter think about it once twice and then BAM ‘puke’. Remember the time you speak your mind is the perfect time. Don’t quarrel be calm be positive about the resultant just “Communicate”, yes that’s the word communicate, because it’s the thing that matters most. Don’t run for which you don’t have an interest, March towards your passion. When you work for your passion you are going to be the most successful person. Believe me!

So keeping this in mind I think its time for me to take a nap.
Oh I just love this song “SoS”-by ABBA (currently listening to it)
So good night, shabbha kher, shubh ratri to everyone and dream…
Love you all...
Yours smiling
Deepika

tweets to all..its the flavour of the season

twitter
New Year and new things well after a lot of orkuting, then facebook, blogging i was seaching for something new and here by i came by doing a new thing and thats "Tweets". when i first sent tweets actually i didnt liked it much but who cares anymore when srk, karan johar, priety zinta, sashi tharoor, barkha dutt, are sending tweets so what else can stop me !!..
so the "breaking news" this year you will find twitting me most of the time.
see you soon
tweets,,..
Deepika...
hugs and love to all..

New year and a new beginning

Wishing you all a very Happy New Year, may you all have what you desire and deserve!!!

Another year is here. New year and a new beginning. Definitely we all looking for a great year ahead and trying to achieve what we desire to have and what we deserve to accomplish ourselves. But one more thing that I believe to be important to give a fresh start is, rewinding own selves to the memories of 2009 and actually introspect that what were the things happened to us in 2009 and how we reacted. If we can recollect the memories of the past 365 days that we came across, then we can tender our selves in a better way as we will know our good and bad reaction or may be to have a controlled reaction. Which I think is very important after all we all are social animal at the end (ha-ha!!...)
Reminiscence 2009, were I found lots of disappointment in masses, people losing jobs, fighting recessions, tragic deaths and lots and lots more it was kind of same experience for me too. A mixed emotion I was some time very disappointed and then getting some opportunity to work what I always wished to do then meeting to a fatal accident then again started working, and of course not to forget I had my own emotional tides every now and then, which actually succeeded taking me to a frustrating level from were I practically fetched myself because I lost something very precious, now everything is fine so don’t worry, as 2009 has taught me how to take care of own self.
Also 2009, has given me my “dream come true moment” that was on 11th December were I first time acted on stage in Delhi oh gosh!! That was a moment which I will carry throughout my life. I would never forget 2009 as it has taken away something and has given me many things.
I hope to pursue 20’oh’10 in a grabbing way, I will have, that I desire more then 2009 has given me. This year I will have more work, more shows, more literature and more friends and yes more blog updates.
TaDa
Love you all n Happy New Year again..
Deepika…