Oh I hate them, really I hate them. Thank God I don’t have one. Now don’t ask me what?? I am talking about “brother”..!! Seriously man they are sick. Earlier when girls were born in a kin the society used to assert that “you have a daughter then who is going to look after your clan, you don’t have an ascendant, and she will get married one day and will move to another family. Then who will sustain your old age”. But now days it’s changing, do boys really look after his parents and kin after he gets married. Its one of the rare to the rarest example, we will find that he is taking care of his responsibility other then their wives. The mentality is changing. People are now realizing that giving birth to a son doesn’t mean soul happiness and satisfaction. I know number of people who few years back were proud parents of son or sons. But now they say it as curse in this century. It’s not what I say, it’s their words, as time rolled and they are old their sons are not looking after them, and they are been insulted every minute, their pride has actually got disappeared. Well it’s not bad to take care of their wives to fullest but they have no rights to disown their parents with whom they spent their childhood, who fulfilled their every wish, feeding them with delicious food without retaining for themselves. It’s not bad to look after your wives but for God’s sake they have some responsibility for their parents too. Though I don’t want to defend those ladies too who allows their husbands to act so rubbish. Firstly I believed only men are rational but girls not less rational too and can be mean more mean then a man could be. I could not understand their thought process, how they expect to be happy while heartrending parents? Complete nonsense. What kind of education and upbringings they had, as they behave so rude. I can not even imagine my mom would kill me to such non sense behavior. My parents always taught me that whatever you do in life is your wish but never forget to give “respect” may it be us or some other elderly person or kids but to be happy in life its important to earn respect and for that you need to respect all humankind. That’s what my parents taught me. It’s all about upbringings either you are boy or a girl it’s very essential to imbed true values of life. So to the people reading this post don’t be proud of your son or disheartened of daughter, try to teach them true values of life and giving respect. Give them education and education doesn’t mean degrees, rather to “grow as a human” (which my father used to say and I not only trust it but do follow in life).
Period.
Education and upbringing are the two most important aspects in life. And only parents can fulfill these two. Giving humanitarian edification is more important then materialistic happiness and accomplishments.
Love
Deepika…
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