What would make us a better person to be out of them both? Is it Sacrifice or being flexible? Sacrifice means giving others what they wish, selflessly, without thinking of getting own self hurt (which u may cause to you), something like I may lose something or may I be heart broken but at least someone else is happy who is very close to me.
Being flexible means your capability for adjustment, may be amongst your family, friends or even in a mob of folks. But being flexible doesn’t hurt you or anyone. It is mind set, may be for example” you need the calculator! Ok you take it I will do manually or may be later”. Though being flexible makes you feel neglected or ignorant sometimes in front of them, may be because they take you for granted, usually like “ah! She will understand, don’t have to think about it!”
But
Dear people if someone is flexible don’t take them for granted because he or she may expect you to understand them. They do little adjustment because they care for you a lot or give you much importance that you may never guess.
If someone is adjusting or giving you importance just try a little to return some in favor. To make them happy and you can be selfish because the little you going to do for them which they actually never had expected from you, they will return the more to you. And if you genuinely care for them then speak up!
PS
This little exchange of affection or may I say being 'flexible' makes us what we are that is human being or being HUMAN.
With love
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