If rumors are to be believe, then with my few interactions during past few weeks has let me to cover myself in a hard shell, so that no one could ever get to me. At the time when we hear and read many of the rape cases (the rage started after “Nirbhaya” which has prompted anguish mind in the society today) still urge me to think are the women who enjoys top positions are safe enough?
Now you would think I am talking nonsense, and believe me I was thinking, before writing my thoughts here. We all talk about women physical security. We think, is it safe for a woman to drive after 2200 hours? Is it ok to go for a girl to take up night shifts, will she be able to commute alone in the city and so on until I recently discover that though the women who possesses a lavish lifestyle and are quite equipped to pay for their own security are not secure enough. We have a disabled mind society which cannot gulp women successes. We talk about Women Liberalization with a wine glass in hand, but it does not support the thought. And the reason is “The Rumors”. What about the indecent comments and rumors which we come across? Shouldn’t we do something to stop those?
Why every successful woman is labeled “lesbian”? (I don’t find any clue to this) just because they are not married till late thirties or early forties! I heard it first about well known Indian woman journalist years back, and I didn’t believed it then and now I heard the same about a television producer and an actress. Why can’t we handle their successes? Why we are trending toward spreading such non sense rumors? And even if they are then why can’t we accept it. It’s their sexuality and let them have what they want, why other people are even bothered. For God sakes don’t judge people with their sexual orientations. And definitely stop spreading such non sense filthy rumors.
Now you would think I am talking nonsense, and believe me I was thinking, before writing my thoughts here. We all talk about women physical security. We think, is it safe for a woman to drive after 2200 hours? Is it ok to go for a girl to take up night shifts, will she be able to commute alone in the city and so on until I recently discover that though the women who possesses a lavish lifestyle and are quite equipped to pay for their own security are not secure enough. We have a disabled mind society which cannot gulp women successes. We talk about Women Liberalization with a wine glass in hand, but it does not support the thought. And the reason is “The Rumors”. What about the indecent comments and rumors which we come across? Shouldn’t we do something to stop those?
Why every successful woman is labeled “lesbian”? (I don’t find any clue to this) just because they are not married till late thirties or early forties! I heard it first about well known Indian woman journalist years back, and I didn’t believed it then and now I heard the same about a television producer and an actress. Why can’t we handle their successes? Why we are trending toward spreading such non sense rumors? And even if they are then why can’t we accept it. It’s their sexuality and let them have what they want, why other people are even bothered. For God sakes don’t judge people with their sexual orientations. And definitely stop spreading such non sense filthy rumors.
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